Thursday, October 21, 2010

The Value of the Will

by Will Parfitt

Relax and centre yourself. Think of times in your life when you have missed an opportunity or caused pain to yourself or someone else through your lack of will. Picture these events as vividly as possible and allow the associated feelings to affect you. Now write down a list of these times in your life with which you have just connected. Let yourself really desire to change yourself so that you have more will.

Reflect on all the opportunities and benefits there would be both for yourself and others if your will was strengthened. Think clearly what these advantages would be, then write them down. Allow the feelings aroused by these anticipated advantages to really affect you. Feel the joy that these opportunities could give you, the satisfaction you would feel if you were stronger willed. Let yourself really feel your desire to become stronger in this way.

Finally picture yourself as having a strong will. Imagine yourself acting in every situation with firm decisions, focused intention, and clear awareness. Visualize yourself walking, talking, sitting and simply being in a way that exhibits your mastery over the will. You are strong, yet subtle, firm yet kind, acting with skill and discrimination. Realize you can use this technique to strengthen your will whenever you choose.

Source:
Psychosynthesis: The Elements and Beyond (ISBN 0-9552786-0-0) p. 64

Online References:
http://www.willproject.org/wiki/Purpose_and_the_Creative_Will
http://www.willparfitt.com/
http://www.psavalon.com/

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